Wednesday, February 17, 9:30 PM
There are a couple of questions sitting in my formspring inbox and I would love to answer them right now but I can't because I can't seem to log in to my formspring so I'm really sorry yu guys, if yu would just wait a little more...
It's Wednesday night and I really should be studying for Child Development but I'm gonna spend tomorrow doing that so I will probably stay up tonight to have the time of my life on the internet because I swear (hehehe) I will not let fb/twitter/tumblr distract me tomorrow...........
Rule number 1. Be independent. There is nothing more annoying and there is nothing worse than being a clingy girlfriend. Having a boyfriend does not mean that your life has to change drastically just to fit the other person in. Yu have your life, and your boy has his. Independence means being able to survive without your man..BREATHE.
Rule number 2. Do not call more than once (in the day). If yu call and yu don't get an answer, leave a message. Don't hang up after the beep tone, because thats not what voicemail is for. LEAVE A FREAKING MESSAGE. If yu feel weird talking to yourself, send him a text. I am sure he can see the missed call, listen to the voicemail or read your text. Why make yourself look desperate by calling more than once? Let them call yu back on their own time. If they don't, they're probably not interested and maybe it's time to get some new eyecandy.
Rule number 3. Have a life. Don't ever make it seem like your plans revolve around him. If he decides to tell yu at the very last minute that he's going to be out with his boys, your day is wasted. Don't depend on him to keep yu occupied. Boys don't like to feel that they cannot go out with their friends just because yu're gonna sulk around the house lifeless without them.
Rule number 4. NEVER talk about exboyfriends. It is annoying, irrelevant and stupid. Move on. They are called exes for a reason.
Rule number 5. Never bring up old arguments as if yu didn't get enough closure or just to prove a point. It's over. Boys forget previous arguments when they wake up from their sleep. Let it go.
Rule number 6. Do not date a boy who is in another relationship. It only gives the impression that yu are naive and easy and not strong enough to realize that there are other great single boys out there. They will know that they have yu wrapped around their finger. But if he is really worth it...
Rule number 7. Do not catch feelings if yu were not serious with him right from the start. If he was just a piece of meat to yu at first, that is ALL yu will ever be to him.
Rule number 8. Do not snoop. Do not look in their phones, emails bla bla. Yu are obviously looking for something to make yu mad. If yu are looking for something bad, yu will find it. Or yu will make it bad in your mind. If he is cheating, it will come to light. Don't waste your good time stressing yourself out or becoming a private investigator.
Rule number 9. Promote yourself. Boys are so good at talking themselves up, they are totally comfortable letting everyone know what a great job they've done, what they think they are good at, and their past successes. As sung by Beyonce, "Some call it arrogant, I call it confident"
Rule number 10. Open your eyes, do not get run over. Don't turn stupid in love because love shouldn't make yu stupid.
Other tips and tricks that I live by...have platonic guy friends for advice. Be smart, be strong and trust. These rules won't work on boys who have a feminine side because boys like that almost always do exactly what we want. If there is no conflict in your relationship, it won't work. And thinking too hard about what he might be thinking may cause your head or your relationship to explode. So chill. Go with the flow.
Remember, good girls usually got good game.
It's Wednesday night and I really should be studying for Child Development but I'm gonna spend tomorrow doing that so I will probably stay up tonight to have the time of my life on the internet because I swear (hehehe) I will not let fb/twitter/tumblr distract me tomorrow...........
How to Think Like a Boy
Rule number 1. Be independent. There is nothing more annoying and there is nothing worse than being a clingy girlfriend. Having a boyfriend does not mean that your life has to change drastically just to fit the other person in. Yu have your life, and your boy has his. Independence means being able to survive without your man..BREATHE.
Rule number 2. Do not call more than once (in the day). If yu call and yu don't get an answer, leave a message. Don't hang up after the beep tone, because thats not what voicemail is for. LEAVE A FREAKING MESSAGE. If yu feel weird talking to yourself, send him a text. I am sure he can see the missed call, listen to the voicemail or read your text. Why make yourself look desperate by calling more than once? Let them call yu back on their own time. If they don't, they're probably not interested and maybe it's time to get some new eyecandy.
Rule number 3. Have a life. Don't ever make it seem like your plans revolve around him. If he decides to tell yu at the very last minute that he's going to be out with his boys, your day is wasted. Don't depend on him to keep yu occupied. Boys don't like to feel that they cannot go out with their friends just because yu're gonna sulk around the house lifeless without them.
Rule number 4. NEVER talk about exboyfriends. It is annoying, irrelevant and stupid. Move on. They are called exes for a reason.
Rule number 5. Never bring up old arguments as if yu didn't get enough closure or just to prove a point. It's over. Boys forget previous arguments when they wake up from their sleep. Let it go.
Rule number 6. Do not date a boy who is in another relationship. It only gives the impression that yu are naive and easy and not strong enough to realize that there are other great single boys out there. They will know that they have yu wrapped around their finger. But if he is really worth it...
Rule number 7. Do not catch feelings if yu were not serious with him right from the start. If he was just a piece of meat to yu at first, that is ALL yu will ever be to him.
Rule number 8. Do not snoop. Do not look in their phones, emails bla bla. Yu are obviously looking for something to make yu mad. If yu are looking for something bad, yu will find it. Or yu will make it bad in your mind. If he is cheating, it will come to light. Don't waste your good time stressing yourself out or becoming a private investigator.
Rule number 9. Promote yourself. Boys are so good at talking themselves up, they are totally comfortable letting everyone know what a great job they've done, what they think they are good at, and their past successes. As sung by Beyonce, "Some call it arrogant, I call it confident"
Rule number 10. Open your eyes, do not get run over. Don't turn stupid in love because love shouldn't make yu stupid.
Other tips and tricks that I live by...have platonic guy friends for advice. Be smart, be strong and trust. These rules won't work on boys who have a feminine side because boys like that almost always do exactly what we want. If there is no conflict in your relationship, it won't work. And thinking too hard about what he might be thinking may cause your head or your relationship to explode. So chill. Go with the flow.
Remember, good girls usually got good game.